Qualities for good personality -M.A(RD) in English
The essential qualities for the development of a good personality are:
1. Clarity of goals and purpose in life- Things will happen only if we make them happen.
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Goal in thought Starting point- Action- Goal achieved in Reality
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Goals can be achieved systematic, determined, consistent efforts with self control and accepting set backs without dejection.
2. Doing beyond expectations- In any situation, one must try to give away more than is expected; without expecting rewards in cash or kind. Then the rewards would come automatically.
3. Learning from failures-
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Upholding the ideal once again even if a person failed a thousand times.
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Learn from mistakes and change yourself.
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See to that mistakes are not repeated.
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Do not find fault with other for one own mistakes.
4. Initiative- This develops the leadership qualities.
5. Enthusiasm-
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It is energy, excitement which gives joy in work and life.
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It leads to commitment and overcome feelings of tiredness, lack of sleep, disappointment and failures.
6. Character and Personality- It includes honesty, integrity, sincerity, truthfulness and commitments.
7. Self discipline- The major things to discipline are thoughts, emotions, words, actions, habits and behaviours.
8. Positive Mental attitude-
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Don’t find fault with others.
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I can do instead of I cannot do.
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I choose to do instead of I have to do or I need to do.
9. Managing
10.Sound physical and mental health.
11. Team work- Team work helps to develop fine personality.
12. Hard work- It is not number of hours, but the output doing right things at the right time.
13. Desiring Pleasure and excitement- Many simple hobbies and being help to others.
14. Growing in one’s knowledge and skills- books, meetings, personal visits and experiences.
Things to enhance your personality:
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Don’t compare your life.
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Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
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Don’t invest your precious energy on gossip.
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Dream more while you are awake.
Ways to make people like you-
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Become genuinely interested in other people.
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Smile.
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Be a good leader.
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Encourage others to talk about themselves.
Win people to your way of thinking-
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Show respect for the other person’s opinions.
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Never say, “You are wrong.”
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Begin in a friendly way.
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Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.